What Really Makes Guys Cheat?
All of us have intuition, a voodoo-ish internal radaw that picks up on hidden clues.You don't need lipstick on a collar to know your man is the two-timing type. You can forgive a guy for some indiscretions, but it's damn near impossible to turn the other cheek if he strays.
The first warning sign is often feeling unattractive, followed by insecurity. Subconsciously, you'll feel unloved and unwanted.
Recovering from any kind of betrayal is never easy. When it comes to forgiving him for his affair, I wonder: "Am I letting him get off too easy? Should I be making him suffer more? I'm very torn about where mercy and being a doormat differ." And I’m certainly not alone. No matter what the issue once was, forgiveness is always a difficult -- but real -- part of relationships. And knowing where to start is often the hardest part.
How can I forgive?
Recovering from any kind of betrayal is never easy. When it comes to forgiving him for his affair, I wonder: "Am I letting him get off too easy? Should I be making him suffer more? I'm very torn about where mercy and being a doormat differ." And I’m certainly not alone. No matter what the issue once was, forgiveness is always a difficult -- but real -- part of relationships. And knowing where to start is often the hardest part.
How can I forgive?
posted by Michelle at 5:40 PM
5 Comments:
while for different reasons, i think that all the sexes cheat. both men AND women.
also the question is not how does one forgive .. but more importantly, how does one learn from it ..
also the question is not how does one forgive .. but more importantly, how does one learn
HOW DOES ONE FORGIVE? IT'S JUST EASY,A WOMEN WHO FELT INLOVE WITH HIS GUY WHO IS CHEATING CAN EASILY FORGIVE, BUT THERES THE GAPP AND NO LONGER GIVEN TRUST TO HIS GUY.
WHEN GUYS CHEATING, WELL THE WOMEN WILL GONNA FELT ANXIETY, WHICH MAKES THEM THINK THAT, " DO I STILL HAVE TO TRUST THIS GUY? "
ONE IMPORTANT OF HOW DOES ONE LEARN, YAH WE HAVE LEARN FOR SUCH THINGS HAPPEN, SOME SAYS IT'S JUST LOVE LIFE'S TRIALS , A TRIALS WHICH MAKES A RELATIONSHIPS STRONGER THAN BEFORE, BUT WHO KNOWS? I'M ALSO A GUY WHOM ALWAYS BE A GUY.
ONEDAY YOU FORGIVE HIM, LIFE GOES BACK INTO SILENT TUNES BUT YOU MIGHT WAKE UP ONEDAY THE TUNE MAKES YOU DEAF FOR IT CAN BREAK YOUR EARS FOR THE THINGS YOU HAVE HEARD ON THE TIME YOU AWAKE.
i guess all wounds heal in time. i just don't know when.
michelle said...
i guess all wounds heal in time. i just don't know when.
9:56 AM
MICHELLE YOU WOULD SAY WOUNDS HEAL IN TIME, BUT THE WOUND WILL ALWAYS BE WOUNDED AND WILL ALWAYS BE IMPRINTED IN YOUR HEART AND IN YOUR MIND. IF WOUND HEALS IN TIME, WHEN? COPING UP WITH HURTS DISAPPEARS JUST IN TIME WHEN ARE YOU SEEMS SO BUSY BUT WHENEVER YOU'RE ALONE, THE WOUNDS WILL DEFINITELY FELT ITCHY...WHICH WANTED YOU TO SCRATCH THE ITCH TILL IT WOUNDED AGAIN... IF YOU CANT CATCH WHAT I MEAN, TRY TO LOOK AT THE MIRROR WHEN YOU'RE ALONE AND THINK OF YOU'RE BOYFREIND WHO'S CHEATING...THERE, YOU CAN SEE YOU AND IMAGINE YOUR MAN HAVING SEX WITH HER WOMAN...SO HOW CAN A WOUND HEALS IN TIME...???
I BELIEVED THAT WOUNDS NOT HEAL IN TIME...
IT IN HELL IN TIME. HAHAHAHAHA.
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